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I think he basically wants it to behave like ICQ does, where someone sends you a message and all it does is flash a message icon next to their name until you click it. Yes, that's right. Though, I would like the dock icon to flash (it does that already, of course) AND I would like the growl message...

I have Adium/growl set to display a sticky growl notification when i receive a message from one of my buddies. But, when I do receive a message, a "message window" opens automatically. Is there any way to disable that action? I've tried looking in preferences under "Events" (that...