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I guess there's not really an option for clearing your icon like in Fire? I've been trying to remove it all together

No, I think the problem is that it sometimes sets itself to the ichat icon or something which is changed sometimes when I accidentally hit the buddy icon button in photobooth, but I don't want any icon at all really. I'd prefer not to have the black icon either, though I don't know if this is possib...

In the Adium >> Preferences >> Accounts >> Edit >> Personal tab, I can't seem to delete in there though.

Where do I select the icon? Is there an icon folder where I could just delete them all & then set it to read only so that no icons get accidentally added?

My buddy icon keeps setting to a picture that I took with my isight on my mac os x tiger system. it's really frustrating, I keep changing it to a black picture but my friends keep getting the isight picture. is there anyway I can remove the icon function completely so that I don't send out any icon ...

This is an awfully noob question, sorry. But I can't figure out how to send an IM to someone who isn't on my contact list or how to view their buddy info ... is this possible? Any help would be appreciated.