Occasionally I get logged out of my MSN and Adium tells me I logged on in another location. I just usually ignore it and tell Adium to reconnect. However, this time I was in the middle of chatting with someone on MSN. They told me that during the few seconds that happened, "I" messaged them saying this:
Hey check out the pics from the crazy party!! they are nuts LOL! go here to see (with a link here)
What's causing the "you've been signed in at another location" and that message, when I'm clearly not signed in?
How do I stop/fix it?
I have logged into my messengers when I visit my brother, sometimes. However, he also has a Mac. I suppose it's possible that someone there went to one of the sites you described.