Concerning Invis
Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 8:23 am
I hate it. I really do. It ruins the entire purpose of having an online chat. It's illogical and only aggravates others.
Even worse are the people who say "well I go invis cause otherwise I'll get a lot of IMs." I hate em. If you don't want IMs, tell them that. We are all people and all people have some compassion. I've had several instances where all I needed to do was politely ask the spamming friend to lay off a bit. If it doesn't work, you can block. I have nothing against blocking because there are times when the offender is heartless, but you should not make everybody suffer by enabling invis mode.
But the sad truth is that people like their invis mode. They feel secure and empowered so our only option is to work around that. It would be easiest to make a checkable option in the preferences: "respect invisible mode" if invis mode is detectable.
If that is not possible, you might consider a timing script. 99% of invis mode users I know enable it directly after they log in. Just a simple timer will easily spot these people, and we can color them something different in the buddy list.
You can also put in a timed IMer. Send a periodic message that sends a customizable message to all "logged out" users. Perhaps there is some other way to confirm if they are active or not like requesting and canceling a file transfer.
I really wish I was profficient enough to do something like this myself, but I'm not.
ty for droning through my rant, but I hope something gets done.
Even worse are the people who say "well I go invis cause otherwise I'll get a lot of IMs." I hate em. If you don't want IMs, tell them that. We are all people and all people have some compassion. I've had several instances where all I needed to do was politely ask the spamming friend to lay off a bit. If it doesn't work, you can block. I have nothing against blocking because there are times when the offender is heartless, but you should not make everybody suffer by enabling invis mode.
But the sad truth is that people like their invis mode. They feel secure and empowered so our only option is to work around that. It would be easiest to make a checkable option in the preferences: "respect invisible mode" if invis mode is detectable.
If that is not possible, you might consider a timing script. 99% of invis mode users I know enable it directly after they log in. Just a simple timer will easily spot these people, and we can color them something different in the buddy list.
You can also put in a timed IMer. Send a periodic message that sends a customizable message to all "logged out" users. Perhaps there is some other way to confirm if they are active or not like requesting and canceling a file transfer.
I really wish I was profficient enough to do something like this myself, but I'm not.
ty for droning through my rant, but I hope something gets done.