when you cant see a contact and you message them... you get the send now, send later, don't send dialog. ok... so say i press send now... ok it sends it. so on another day i want to do a different option on the same contact... but it automatically remembers for that contact what it should do?!
how can change this?! i want to use the send later option on one my of my contacts? is there a plist file somewhere i can change or something?!
Well I know this isn't what you're looking for, but a workaround in the meantime is to manually setup what Adium does when you choose "send later", which is create a one-time event for that contact to send a message the next time they're seen.
Select buddy > Contact > Get Info > Events > Contact is seen > + > Send a message > Delete after event occurs.